Matt O'Neill said, "There are some people, who will not listen to a word you say."
Yes indeed, some people may not want to "listen to a word you say" and they have that right, but I think that the original post was about theists who call the atheist program and then they do not listen to the atheists response to theists questions or comments. The difference in "just not listening to a word you say" is the fact that theists do not have to listen to the atheist program if they don't want to. In contrast, if theists call the atheist program and then do not listen to a word they say it's disrespectful. The reason they call and ask questions, but they never listen to the answers they get is because they didn't call to listen to an atheist answer anyway. They called to proselytize. Many people are programmed with biases to reject any information that is contradictory to what they already believe. It is practically impossible for them to learn anything new. Using the brain to figure something out is not required to just believe something that you have been indoctrinated to accept as the truth. Programming is not reasoning or learning. Constant lectures or repeating tedium is not learning to reason. Religion was designed with the intention of creating a class of people that would be basically slaves. Every religion uses coercive tactics. Any form of controlling of thought involves some form of brainwashing. It is utterly and completely evil.
Matt O'Neill said, "Just recently, I was discussing Fred Phelps.. Christians commented and said these kind of Christians were terrible and they don't represent the whole. (Protesting Gay Funerals, Thank God for AIDS etc..)"
Some theists may think that exploiting someone's funeral in order to proselytize is terrible, as well as, making ignorant misleading remarks. "Think god for AIDS," which implies that only gays have AIDS. However, many theists who are opponents of change do not support real sex-education, they want abstinence only sex education, which is keeping people ignorant about sex, and is another form of manipulation. It is indoctrination through emotions, which they do not understand. People who are held in ignorance are not empowered or protected. Intelligent people chose to empower themselves with the truth. Gays have AIDS and so do heterosexuals. Medical workers have become infected with AIDS from coming in contact with contaminated blood. Patients have gotten AIDS from blood transfusions and other procedure. The very late start in the prevention of AIDS and the spreading of AIDS was because of the misinformation put out in the 80's that only druggies, prostitutes and gays would have AIDS. Nobody should be that ignorant today, but that is what happens when religious ideologies take the place of real education. The only thing the people who want funding for programs like that care about is keeping people ignorant. The emphasis is on the religious philosophy of punishment for having unmarried sex and not protection through education. I don't think it is moral to ignore the fact that unmarried minors are getting pregnant and the numbers have gone up, so they are having sex. So, why place ideology above protecting people against pregnancy and a disease that can kill.
After all, some people who reside on such a lofty plane, and who are delighted that gays are dying of aids, believe that only bad people will get AIDS. It's a punishment from their "Gawd." Plenty of people who are not gay have died from AIDS, and many of them were children. Some of the radicals who stirred up a shit storm over homosexuality for years, so it seems, are themselves gay. I guess it slipped their minds. I guess it also slipped their minds that gay people cannot get married, so abstinence only would be pretty meaningless to them? It is also a violation of Separation of Church and State to fund religious education programs of any kind, especially one that has failed miserably, but they are still funding it.
Matt O'Neill said, "I commented saying the problem is you don't do anything about it. You say its terrible and then support them(albeit indirectly) by voting against Gay Rights."
The less tolerant theists do believe that homosexuals should be denied their Civil Rights, but not all theists agree with them. The higher the education the less they agree with them.
Matt O'Neill said, "The response I get is that for every extreme Christian there is an extreme Atheist trying to take away our Christmas Trees.. and you have to remind them they just compared "hate speech" to "complaints about decorations"
These are ignorant, god-fearing, bogus claims. Theists are always being persecuted it's biblical. However, Separation of Church and State is not an exclusive atheists issue. All kinds of people support Separation of Church and State. Christmas decorations in government buildings are a Separation of Church and State issue. They are not just decorations; they are religious "decorations" that cannot be displayed in government buildings. Nothing stops them from "decorating" private property. Where I live Christmas time looks like Christmas threw up all over it.
Matt O'Neill said, "Which spirals down to a comment attacking Evolution and making a comment about the founding fathers being Christian.. and then they tried to be smart and say "Oh right they were Apes." and then you explain that Humans are Apes... and then they ask "If we evolved from Apes, why are there still Apes?" completely ignoring what I told them."
They mixed two separate subjects and came up with two wrong conclusions? Most conservative Christians do claim the Founding Fathers were Christians, which is false.
James Madison is thought of as the father of the Constitution. Madison gave a very disparaging account of Christianity in his Memorial and Remonstrance against Religious Assessments: "What influence, in fact, have ecclesiastical establishments had on society? In some instances they have been seen to erect a spiritual tyranny on the ruins of the civil authority; on many instances they have been seen upholding the thrones of political tyranny; in no instance have they been the guardians of the liberties of the people. Rulers who wish to subvert the public liberty may have found an established clergy convenient auxiliaries. A just government, instituted to secure and perpetuate it, needs them not."
Creationists famously ask, "If we evolved from Apes, why are there still Apes?"
That question is about what that person does not understand. We are another species of apes. They do not understand that each species has a unique series of common ancestors linking it to the original common ancestor. Man and apes are branches of the same tree. The ancestral line for modern humans diverged from the ape tree. Hominoids, or apes that includes orangutans, gibbons, gorillas, chimpanzees, and humans. Hominidae consists of all species on our side of the last common ancestor of humans and living apes. Hominids are included in the super family of all apes, the Hominoidea, the members of which are called hominoids.
There is nothing in evolutionary theory stating a source population must go extinct in order for new species to evolve. Apes and humans evolved from a common ancestor.
Matt O'Neill said, "In that situation there is nothing you can do but try and force them to acknowledge what you said."
Forcing people "to acknowledge what you say" or to do anything indicates bigger problems than the one who doesn't want to listen. That is exactly what is wrong with religious extremists. The extremists do not teach they try to force or indoctrinate others with what they believe. All anyone can ever do is give information to people who are willing to listen. After that it is out of your hands. What they do with it is up to them.