Hi Robert,
Your topic states it already has replies but I suppose the Moderators here are still checking them before they go live. This is good to stop spam etc, but bad with the needed wait.
My understanding about 'atheists' in particular, is that they (meaning me too) aren't really that fussed about 'believers'. I've noticed this in particular here, on atheist-experience.com shows. Where believers call in and announce they are believers and the hosts are not really 'angry' or 'frustrated' with their personal belief whatsoever.
The concern only comes when they are asked to explain why they are believers. Some say due to the bible 'factual history' book (?) Some say because their parents were of the same religion (?) Some say because they have morals (?) Some even wonder how an ape turned into a person overnight!! There are also a multitude of other of these so called 'valid' reasons by believers!
Only then does this 'frustration' come in (not so much angry, although there are reasons for that too).
I mean to me (and likely you) the above (most common) reasons for the believer, just aren't reasons at all. So in about 30seconds or less the wise host explains why the reasons aren't valid reasons at all (actually its seriously common sense). BUT, when the believer still states they believe in god, even after being informed the truth, this is sometimes where frustration can or may turn into a tiny bit MORE frustrating.
I think 'anger' only comes into when the believer's impose themselves onto others.
This is also found with believers against other different religious beliefs, not just atheists.
Here's an extremely simple observation I've noticed in life. If you sneeze and someone says 'God bless you' (pretty sure this was to keep your soul escaping or to stop bad demons in!) You DON'T turn around and say, how dare you say that, I'm an atheist and no 'god' exists you fool. I mean generally we all just say 'thanks' and leave it at that, even if we are not religious.
BUT, if you happen to say I don't believe in god, to a religious person, watch out! Firstly you are going to be told that you are going to burn in hell (note you are told this even if you are 10 years old or even younger!) Next you are going to get bible versus shoved in your ears. I mean you need to know this, 'christians' MUST save you at all costs (many christians may even break relationships on this alone)
But hangon a moment. YOU don't mind that they're religious. If they say, god bless you, or praise jesus (although annoying) You don't lose relationships over it, plus you probably wish them the best anyway (ie not burn in hell for instance) But no no, not those religious folk. To them you are the lowest of the low.
So you tell me. Yes you (and me) and the hosts on the show, are ALL quite happy to accept whatever they believe (ie we don't hate children for believing in santa) UNTIL what they believe in either makes zero sense (ie you try to help them with modern understandings and get no where) OR they impose their beliefs onto you and openly state that you are worse than SCUM (note science has found the extract of scum used as penicillin, plus new research shows it may have cancer inhibiting advantages)
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I'm not even going to begin with the politics and abusive sects and all the crimes under the name of religion (including terrorism, and the multitude of other, religious believers only, atrocities committed in this world) I just want you to know that YES atheists do have some frustration and anger (at times) with believers. And for damn good reason too.
Have a nice day :)